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SAFEGUARDING THE INTACT
BOY
A guide to protecting your uncircumcised son by James E. Peron, Ed. D.
American parents in ever increasing numbers are rejecting routine
infant
circumcision. Today there are
nearly as many intact male infants and young boys as there are
circumcised.
With this transition there is
an urgent need for parents and the medical profession to be educated
regarding the anatomy and function
of the foreskin and the simple and proper care of the INTACT
non-circumcised
child.
Retraction of the Foreskin
At birth, the foreskin is usually joined by a mucosal bond between
the
glans penis and the inner foreskin
fold. This bond is intended by nature to protect the sensitive glans
from
urine, feces, and abrasion during
the diaper years. This natural bonding begins to separate as the child
matures. By a well designed plan of
nature, this separation commonly begins about the time the child is out
of
diapers. However, there is no set
age by which the foreskin and glans must be separated. Each child
develops
retraction according to his own
individual time table and it need not be hurried. By puberty, the penis
will
usually have completed its
development, and the foreskin will have separated from the glans and can
readily be retracted.
Even if the glans and foreskin separate naturally in infancy, the
foreskin
lips may open only enough to
allow the passage of urine. This ideal feature protects the glans from
premature exposure to the external
environment. The penis develops naturally throughout childhood.
Eventually,
the child will, on his own,
make the wondrous discovery that his foreskin will retract. There is no
reason for parents, physicians, or
other caregivers to manipulate a child's penis. The only person to
retract a
child's foreskin should be the
child himself, when he has discovered that his foreskin is ready to
retract.
A child's foreskin should NEVER be forcibly retracted. Doing so
will
disrupt and tear apart the natural
protective mucosal bonding of the glans and foreskin. This will cause
pain,
bleeding, and open the route for
irritation, infection and a host of other potential consequences.
Repeated
forcible retraction of the foreskin
can cause scaring and a scar tissue bonding between the glans and
foreskin
making future retraction more
difficult. Forcing the foreskin back may also cause a condition called
"Paraphimosis" whereby the foreskin
gets "trapped" behind the coronal sulcus ridge of the glans and is
difficult
to return to its normal position. If
this should happen, the foreskin can generally be returned to it's
normal
resting position by gently
squeezing the glans between the thumb and forefinger and pushing the
foreskin
forward back over the glans.
A lubricant may help in this process. If the foreskin cannot be
returned
forward, seek immediate medical
attention. Surgery is NOT required.
The Care Concern
Many physicians, including those who specialize in child care, are
not
familiar with the proper care of
the non-circumcised natural child. They are not taught penile anatomy
or the
function of the foreskin in
medical school. Many of these male physicians will themselves have been
circumcised. They have little
understanding or experience with the natural penis. Consequently, there
is a
tendency among the medical
community to recommend circumcision not only of infants but for INTACT
boys
from toddler age through
their teens for any medical condition that involves the penis. The
causative
factor can be as simple as
diaper rash, irritation, tightness, presumed phimosis, suspected Urinary Tract Infection,
minor
infection and a host of other
conditions that should never warrant surgical intervention. There is
rarely
ever a medical condition that
would warrant circumcision of the infant and young male child.
Parents
should be wary of anyone who
tries to retract their child's foreskin, and especially wary of anyone
who
advises circumcision of their child.
The greatest concern to parents and the greatest danger to the
INTACT boy
is for the child to be cared
for or treated by physicians or nursing staff who are not well educated
regarding the functions of the
foreskin and the care of the natural penis. It is shocking that most
parents
of natural non-circumcised boys
are generally better informed on proper care than those to whom they
entrust
the care of their son.
During our thirty years of educating and counseling parents and
their
young children, the greatest number
of calls we received are calls from parents concerned over their
doctor's
improper care - forcibly retracting a
child's foreskin, advising parents to routinely retract and clean the
child's
foreskin; or doctors who advise,
intimidate, or badger parents to have their son circumcised. The
following
are arguments you may have
presented to you by the medical profession to persuade you to have your
INTACT son circumcised. You
need to be well informed and exercise extreme caution to protect your
son
from harm by those who are
uninformed and make such recommendations.
Arguments Often Given in Recommending
Circumcision
- Circumcise Him To Provide Better Health And Hygiene
Circumcision is definitely NOT needed to facilitate penile hygiene
or
improve the child's state of health.
Indeed the foreskin provides far better hygiene and protection than
would be
provided by circumcision.
The foreskin keeps the glans safe, soft, sensitive, and clean. A recent
article in the prestigious British
Journal of Urology confirms the protection provided by the foreskin
"Not
only do circumcised boys
require more care, they are also more likely to develop penis
problems." The
American Academy of
Pediatrics (AAP) further states
"The foreskin shields the glans:
with
circumcision this protection is lost."
- Circumcise Him To Correct A Tight , Adherent, Unretractable Foreskin
(Phimosis)
The foreskin of an infant and young boy is naturally bonded by a
mucosal
bond during early childhood.
It is the foreskin's function to provide covering and protection to
the
developing glans and penis throughout
life. As the boy matures, these "adhesions" separate and
retraction is
achieved. Often doctors will tell you
the boy has "Phimosis". This is a medical term meaning that his
foreskin
does not retract. What they fail to
understand is that this is "normal" in a young natural INTACT boy.
It is
NOT a legitimate reason to
recommend that the boy be circumcised. Some misinformed doctors may
suggest
that these natural
"adhesions" be broken by a probe inserted into the child's
foreskin or by
forcibly retracting the foreskin.
Not only is this unnecessary, it is improper medical advice. The
foreskin of
an INTACT boy should
NEVER be forcibly retracted by anyone. Be certain your child's
physician
understands this.
- Circumcise Him To Correct A Long Foreskin, Ballooning And Spraying When
Urinating
The length of the foreskin varies widely among natural INTACT
boys.
It seems nature knows that the
child will need that additional length to "grow into" as he matures.
Ballooning of the foreskin of a young
natural child is common. The foreskin of many young toddler age boys is
generally tight with a small
opening. With an INTACT foreskin the urine leaves the glans opening and
exits through the narrow
foreskin opening. Ballooning and spraying is rather common and not a
condition that requires
circumcision. The argument that it may cause back pressure or damage to
the
kidneys is unfounded. This
ballooning and spraying, although often disconcerting to parents, is a
delight to most little boys. As long
as he is able to void there is no danger or problem that warrants
surgical
intervention. Be assured that as his
foreskin becomes more pliant and retractable, the ballooning will
subside and
spraying will not be a
problem. As he is being potty trained, you may have him retract his
foreskin
gently while urinating. This
should provide better aim and reduce the spraying.
Circumcise Him To Stop His Playing With His Penis And Fixation To His
Genitals
This is the old circumcise him to stop "Masturbation" argument
theme
that prevailed during the post
Victorian period and that which accelerated the practice of infant and
child
circumcision in the early 1900's.
It is nonsense! All boys discover their penis during childhood and
will
naturally explore their genital area
as they would their hands, feet, face and other body parts. INTACT boys
will
naturally tug and pull on their
foreskin because it is there and it feels good when the foreskin moves
over
the glans. Circumcised boys
likewise discover the pleasant feelings invoked by tugging on the penis
or
rubbing their exposed glans.
Natural boys are vastly more sensitive than circumcised boys and quickly
discover the good feelings playing
with their foreskin provides. It is through this natural process that
INTACT
boys develop retraction of their
foreskin. It is as though nature intended for the lad to discover his
natural penis. You should not deter his
curiosity and natural exploration of his genitals. As he begins to
bathe and
care for himself, you should
teach and encourage him to retract his foreskin during his shower or
bath.
He will not develop a fixation
toward his penis or genitals. By these normal and natural activities,
he
will develop an appreciation and
healthy regard for his natural body.
- Circumcise Him To Prevent UTI, Inflammation, Irritation or Infection
The argument that an INTACT boy may have a greater chance of
developing a
Urinary Track Infection
(UTI) has been argued at length and is medically unproved. This is NOT
a
valid reason for having a child
circumcised. The American Academy of Pediatrics and the American
Medical
Association (AMA) have
stated this quite clearly. The appropriate treatment, should any child,
male
or female, develop a UTI is to
treat the UTI with antibiotics as would be the treatment for UTI of the
female child who is much more
susceptible to UTI than boys. If they can be treated by conservative
means,
then why suggest circumcision
for boys? Surgical intervention is extreme and uncalled for. It would
never be suggested in any European
nation where nearly all boys are INTACT.
- Circumcise Him When Having Another Anesthetized Procedure
-
Frequently, when an INTACT boy is admitted to a hospital for any
treatment or corrective surgery
requiring general anesthesia, his doctor or hospital staff doctors may
recommend that you have him
circumcised as an optional secondary procedure while he is anesthetized
and
in the hospital. In past
generations, this was a common practice on older INTACT boys. Many
boys
were circumcised when they
had a tonsillectomy, hernia repair or appendectomy procedure. Parents,
be
extremely cautious that you
protect and specify that your INTACT son is NOT to be circumcised,
should he
require hospital treatment
of any kind. Circumcision of a young boy during the "Phallic
Period" of
childhood can have very serious
physical and psychological consequences and should never be allowed.
-
Circumcise Him Now As He May Need It Later
In our thirty years of working with parents and their children, We
have
never seen a case where a
child had to be circumcised for medical reasons. The likelihood of a
boy
requiring circumcision during his
lifetime is practically non-existent. If your doctor recommends
circumcision
of your young child on the
argument that it is better now than later as it will hurt more if he is
older, you can be assured that this
physician is woefully uninformed regarding the natural foreskin and care
of
the INTACT boy. Our advice
is that you find another doctor for your son who is better informed.
Be
especially wary of this argument
with respect to the above concern of a child entering a hospital for
other
surgical treatment.
-
Circumcise Him To Look Like His Father, Male Siblings, or Peers
This is the most illogical of all arguments used by advocates of
routine
circumcision. Those fathering
children in the U.S. today were most likely subjected to a medically
unjustified circumcision at birth
without their consent. Now that medical arguments have been discounted,
we
have medical professionals
suggesting that a child be circumcised to look like his father, older
male
siblings, or peers. Obviously, a
young boy's genitals are never going to look like his father's
during
childhood. With simple explanation,
he will NOT be caused any concerns because his father was circumcised
and he
was not. He will be grateful
that you had the wisdom to protect him. No baby boy should be subjected
to
any surgery, especially
surgery that is medically unjustified and not recommended, simply to
look
like others or to conform to our
image of what he should look like. The risks are far too great. There
are
literally hundreds of thousands of
families in the United States where the father is circumcised and his
son's
are not. We have never had a
parent tell us this was a concern to their son. The problem seems more
a
problem with the circumcised
father's inability to accept his own circumcision as being medically
unjustified and subjecting his son to
circumcision to bolster his own self-image. Peer look alike concerns
are
likewise unfounded. By the time
these young INTACT boys enter school, they will be among the majority of
their peer age group.
Circumcision in the U.S. is ending.
-
Circumcise Him Since His Foreskin Is Getting Tight And No Longer
Retracts As
Before
Sometimes, a previously retractable foreskin may tighten and become
resistant to retraction. His
foreskin may be red irritated and chaffed. This is not an indication
for
circumcision as the foreskin is doing
it's intended protective function. Except for the protection of the
foreskin, the glans and urinary opening
would be attacked causing much more serious concerns. We have observed
that
this condition is often
associated with the use of bubble bath, applying soap to the glans when
bathing or showering, or swimming
in highly chlorinated pools. These conditions generally subside when
the
offending irritant has been
eliminated. Apply a soothing ointment to his foreskin to clear up
irritations. Acidophilus culture (available
at health food stores) taken internally or applied to the foreskin
several
times a day has also been found
effective. Should the condition of tightness persist, the use of
topical
steroids such as "betamethasone
valerate (.05%)", applied to the foreskin has been found to be a safe
and
effective treatment in alleviating
the tightness. Consult your doctor regarding this form of treatment.
Circumcision is NOT necessary.
We trust the above information will provide you with informative to
assist you in safeguarding and
protecting your INTACT son from potential harm by those who are not
properly
informed on the care of
the natural uncircumcised boy.
Mr. Peron is a medical research writer, educator, lecturer. He is
the
founder and executive director
emeritus of the Childbirth Education Foundation. He has devoted over
thirty
years researching birthing
and newborn care concerns. He is regarded as an authority on the
subject of
routine circumcision and the
care of the natural non-circumcised boy. Additional free
information
regarding the Health Fallacy of
infant circumcision and the simple and proper care of the INTACT boy is
available from
Childbirth Education Foundation PO Box 251 Oxford, PA 19363
(717) 529 - 2561
jpncef@aol.com
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