Montessori 101
Montessori Basics For Parents
Part I
by Tim Seldin
There's a lot of information to cover in Montessori 101, and we can't begin to address everything in depth in this article.
Our Fall, 1996 issue of Tomorrow's Child will feature an up-close look at the Montessori materials themselves. This
article will provide a brief overview of the Montessori approach for new and returning Montessori parents. We will
address some of the issues and questions that typically arise in discussions about Montessori.
The Many Faces of Montessori in America
It is difficult to determine precisely how many schools in the United States follow the insights and strategies developed
by Dr. Maria Montessori 89 years ago. The Montessori Foundation's computers show the names and addresses of almost 4,000
schools; yet each time we visit a new community, we discover dozens more.
In 28 years of traveling on behalf of Montessori, I've had the opportunity to visit, work with, and observe more than 650
Montessori schools. The diversity is astounding. Montessori schools are often found in charming homes; the outcome of
an individual hobby of the owner/director. These hearty souls live and breath their work, creating wonderful intimate
communities that radiate a sense of personal attention and family.
Most Montessori schools begin with three-year-olds and extend through the elementary grades. Every year many more
open middle school programs at one extreme and programs for infants and toddlers at the other.Montessori schools are
often found in affluent communities, but just as many serve working-class neighborhoods and the poor. You can find
Montessori in Head Start, the inner cities, migrant workers camps, and on Indian reservations.Montessori schools offer a
wide range of programs. Many are focused on meeting the needs of the working family. Others describe themselves as
college-preparatory programs. Public Montessori programs pride themselves on serving all children, while many
independent schools work hard to find the perfect match of student, school, and family values.
The diversity within Montessori
is tremendous. Despite
widespread beliefs and
misunderstandings about what
Montessori is or is not, no two
Montessori schools are the same.
Some pride themselves on
remaining faithful to what they
see as Montessori's original
vision, while others relish their
flexibility and pragmatic
adaptation. Each school reflects
its own unique blend of facilities,
programs, personality, and
interpretation of Dr. Montessori's
vision.
The Montessori Foundation and our journal, Tomorrow's Child, welcome and celebrate the diversity to be found among
Montessori schools. Just as each child is unique, so are the schools that we create as unique communities of parents and
teachers.
The International Montessori Community
Montessori schools can be found all over the world. Montessori schools are found throughout Western Europe, Central
and South America, Australia, New Zealand, and much of Asia. The movement is widespread in countries like India, Sri
Lanka, Korea, and Japan, and it is beginning to mushroom in Eastern Europe, the former Soviet Union, and China. No
accurate count of the total number of Montessori schools has ever been made, but a reasonable guess might be a hundred
thousand.
Why is there so much variation among Montessori schools?There are more than 5,000 Montessori schools in North
America, but every one is unique. Even within the same school, each class may look and feel quite different from the
others, reflecting the interests and personalities of the teachers; however, certain characteristics will be found in all
classes that are honestly following the Montessori approach. Dr. Montessori was a brilliant student of child development,
and the approach that has evolved out of her research has stood the test of almost 90 years in Montessori schools around
the world.
The Montessori approach has two great qualities: replicability (it can be translated successfully into all sorts of new
situations) and sustainability (Montessori programs don't tend to self-destruct after a few years, as do many other
educational reforms). However, the only truly authentic Montessorian was Dr. Maria Montessori herself. The rest of us
have been forced to interpret and reinterpret her ideas and methods through the filter of our personalities and experience.
Many people assume that "Montessori" schools are essentially alike, perhaps a franchise like McDonald's or Pizza Hut. In
reality, they can differ dramatically, in size, facilities, programs, and emotional climate. At the concep-tual level,
Montessori schools share a common philosophy and approach, but there will always be tremendous variation among
schools that use the name "Montessori."
How can a parent know if she's found a "real" Montessori school?Although most schools try to remain faithful to their
understanding of Dr. Montessori's insights and research, they have all, to some degree, been influenced by the evolution
of our culture and technology. Perhaps the a more relevant question in selecting a Montessori school is to consider how
well it matches your sense of what you want for your child.
Before we established the Montessori Foundation, I served for 22 years as the Headmaster of the Barrie School outside of
Washington, DC. In that role, every year I met with hundreds of families who were interested in enrollment. I always
began each open house by reminding these bright, eager, and sometimes overly anxious parents that no one educational
approach can be right for every child. The wisest goal is to seek out the best fit, not only between the child and the
school, but also between parents' values and goals for their child's education and what a given school can realistically
deliver. I believe that finding the right school for mom and dad is as important as finding the right school for the child.
In the end, the selection of a Montessori school comes down to a matter of personal style and preference. If you visit a
school and find yourself in harmony with its ambiance and practice, it will represent at least one example of what you
define to be a good school. In determining which school is best, parents have to trust their eyes, ears, and gut instincts.
Nothing beats personal observation. The school that one parent raves about, may be completely wrong for another's
child. Conversely, another parent may have decided that "Montessori doesn't work," while it clearly is working very, very
well for your family. Rely on your own experience, not hearsay from other parents. There is probably no clear cut answer.
Often one sign of a school's commitment to professional excellence is their membership in one of the professional
Montessori societies, such as the Association Montessori Interna-tionale (AMI) or the American Montessori Society
(AMS). Both organizations also offer schools the opportunity to become accredited. There are several dozen other
smaller organizations. It is important to remember, though, that many excellent schools choose not to affiliate with any
national organization. They are independent.
What makes Montessori different?
The Montessori approach is often described as an "education for life." When we try to define what children take away
from their years in Montessori, we need to expand our vision to include more than just the basic academic skills.
Normally, Americans think of a school as a place where one generation passes down basic skills and culture to the next.
From this perspective, a school only exists to cover a curriculum, not to develop character and self-esteem. But in all too
many traditional and highly competitive schools, students memorize facts and concepts with little understanding, only to
quickly forget them when exams are over.
Recent studies show that many bright students are passive learners. They coast through school, earning high grades, but
rarely pushing themselves to read material that hasn't been assigned, ask probing questions, challenge their teacher's
cherished opinions, or think for themselves. They typically want teachers to hand them the "right answer." The problem
isn't with today's children, but with today's schools. Children are as gifted, curious, and creative as they ever were, when
they're working on something that captures their interest and which they have voluntarily chosen to explore.
Montessori schools work to develop culturally literate children and nurture their fragile sparks of curiosity, creativity, and
intelligence. They have a very different set of priorities from traditional schools, and a very low regard for mindless
memorization and superficial learning. Montessori students may not memorize as many facts, but they do tend to become
self-confident, independent thinkers who learn because they are interested in the world and enthusiastic about life, not
simply to get a good grade.
Montessori believed that there was more to life than simply the pursuit of wealth and power. To her, finding one's place
in the world, work that is meaningful and fulfilling, and developing the inner peace and depth of soul that allows us to
love are the most important goals in life.
Helen Keller, inspired by Dr. Montessori, wrote:
"I believe that every child has hidden away
somewhere in his being
noble capacities which may be quickened and developed
if we go about it in the right way,
but we shall never properly develop
the higher nature of our little ones
while we continue to fill their minds with the so-called basics.
Mathematics will never make them loving,
nor will accurate knowledge of the size and shape of
the world help them to appreciate its beauties.
Let us lead them during the first years to find their greatest pleasure in
nature.
Let them run in the fields, learn about animals,
and observe real things.
Children will educate themselves under the right conditions.
They require guidance and sympathy far more than instruction."
Montessori schools give children the sense of belonging to a family and help them learn how to live with other human
beings. By creating a bond of parents, teachers, and children, Montessori sought to create a community where individuals
could learn to be empowered, where children could learn to be a part of families, where they could learn to care for
younger children, learn from older people, trust one another, and find ways to be properly assertive rather than aggressive.
To reduce these principles to the most simplistic form, Dr. Montessori proposed that we could ensure world peace by
healing the wounds of the human heart and by producing a child who is independent, at peace with herself, and secure.
Dr. Montessori envisioned her movement as essentially leading to a reconstruction of society.
Montessori schools are different, but it isn't just because of the materials that are used in the classrooms. Look beyond
the pink towers and golden beads, and you'll discover that the classroom is a place where children really want to be -
because it feels a lot like home.
The Children's House
In her research, Dr. Montessori noted specific characteristics associated with the child's interests and abilities at each
plane of development. She argued that a school carefully designed to meet the needs and interests of the child will work
more effectively because it doesn't fight human nature. Montessori taught teachers how to "follow the child" through
careful observation, allowing each student to reveal her strengths and weaknesses, interests and anxieties, and strategies
that work best to facilitate the development of her human potential.
This focus on the "whole child" led Dr. Montessori to develop a very different sort of school from the traditional
adult-centered classroom. To emphasize this difference, she named her first school the "Casa dei Bambini" or the
"Children's House."
There is something profound in her choice of words, for the Montessori classroom is not the domain of the adults in
charge, but rather it is a care- fully prepared environment designed to facilitate the development of the children's
independence and sense of personal empowerment. This is the children's community. They move freely within it,
selecting work that captures their interest, rather than participating in all-day lessons and projects selected by the
teachers.
In a very real sense, even very small children are responsible for the care of their own child-sized environments. When
they are hungry, they prepare their own snack and drink. They go to the bathroom without assistance. When something
spills, they help each other carefully clean things up. Four generations of parents have been amazed to see small children
in Montessori classrooms cut raw fruits and vegetables, sweep and dust, carry pitchers of water and pour liquids with
barely a drop spilled. The children normally go about their work so calmly and purposely that it is clear to even the casual
observer that they are the masters in this environment: a "Children's Community."
Montessori's first "Children's Community," opened in 1907, was made up of 60 inner-city children who largely came from
dysfunctional families. In her book, The Montessori Method, Dr. Montessori describes the transformation that took place
during the first few months, as the children evolved into a "family." They prepared and served the daily meals, washed
the pots and dishes, helped the younger children bathe and change their clothes, swept, cleaned, and worked in the
garden. These very young children developed a sense of maturity and connectedness that helped them realize a much
higher level of their potential as human beings.
While times have changed, the need to
feel connected is still as strong as ever. In
fact, for today's children it is probably even
more important. Whether it's an inner-city
child or a child from an affluent suburb,
the sense of community has all but
disappeared from our children's lives.
Families regularly move from house to
house and from town to town.
Grandparents usually live in other cities or
other states. Both parents work out of
necessity, and when they are at home, they
are very, very busy. The "latch-key" child
has become the norm for this generation.
Many children have the sense that they do
not belong to anything or anybody, which
is why gangs, which give a sense of
belonging, have always had a certain
appeal for some children.
Along with whatever else Montessori gives our children, it definitely gives them the message that they belong - that their
school is like a second family. Studies on the moral and emotional development of children strongly suggest that while
there are probably a few children in every thousand who are truly little "gangsters" at heart, a child's sense of moral
reasoning and sense of self are directly related. Children will normally grow up to be productive, happy, positive
individuals if given the right emotional environment. It seems clear that our attitudes about people, the ability to
overcome our tendency to be ego-centric, our willingness to share, to compromise, to resolve conflicts non-violently, and
our ability to discover a basic sense of self-worth are not qualities that human beings develop spontaneously but rather
through years of experience with caring people, who convince us that we belong and give us the opportunity to practice
and master these skills of everyday living. As in all things, children learn to be kind and compassionate.
Reprinted with Permission by the Author
© 1996 The Montessori Foundation
Tim Seldin is the President of the Montessori Foundation. He is the Headmaster Emeritus of the Barrie School,
Co-Founder of the Institute for Advanced Montessori Studies, and coauthor of two books, The World In The Palm Of
Her Hand and Celebrations of Life.